5 years of friendships… ended on 02/03/05..time 11.15p.m. Having mixed feeling n0w…
n0e her during Sec 3 in Northland Sec Sch… A super skinny gal wib curl hair sitting at the bench al0n3… She was waiting 4 her Chinese Calligraphy… While m0i was jus accompany Winnie & Yl… Sitting next 2 her bench… Jus b4 we left, she speak 2 us… she was telling us tat she was waiting 4 the Chinese Calligraphy 2 start, but 4gotten 2 bring a pen… We was like, Har? cum 4 Chinese Calligraphy without a pen??? We jus lent her & started chatting 2 her… Frenzship started frm this day…
While chatting wib her, get 2 n0e she jus transfer frm another Sec sch c0s shifted 2 Wdls… wh0 n0es, s0 “qia0” she jus stays a few blk away frm M0i… & b0th of us share the same surname sia!!! Everything was like fated… Initially, we th0ught she quite ke lian, onli has a few frenz which was n0t cl0se at all… During recess, we always saw her sitting al0ne copying hw la, or slping… chatted wib her a few times, so let her join our gang… h0wever, as times past, we r getting used 2 it wib her in our gang…
Sl0wly get 2 find out m0re abt her… a v skinny ger wh0 full of confident abt l0oks, hairstyle and cl0thes she wear… had al0ts of ear h0les… l0ok like an typical ah_lian in sch… luv techno (which I hates al0t) luv 2 take ne0-prints…dun care wat other ppl say abt her… a very st. f0rward gal… can do unexpected action or thing, normal pp/ couldn’t accept!
Among the 3 of us, onli m0i can stand her rubbish cum crapz… s0on, we began 2 meet up during weekend & went 2 t0wn… still remember her fav hangout place was ORCHARD… Maybe tat time, we still y0ung… keep thinking, w0rking at Orchard areas was s0 great!!! Haaahaa.. thinking back felt s0 silly actually… We still started 2 imagine when we gr0w up, wear nice nice, put nice make-up… w0rk in Orchard… *penGz rite? Guess wat? M0i 1st j0b really l0cated at Orchard areas (PS)…
She was the one wh0 bring m0i out & stepped in society. In my heart, I’m s0 grateful 2 her. Telling everyone she was the one wh0 intro this j0b 2 m0i… Our 1st job was Taco Bell… I always wish I’ve a older sis… & I can say I always treat her as my older sis… Hanging 2gether hrs m0re than my “ha0 ji3 mei”… In sch wib her, during w0rk I still see her… meet 2 g0 w0rk, waited 4 each other 2 kn0ck off & g0 h0me…
Still remember when para para was popular tat times, she was damm crazy abt it… c0s dun wanna 2 waste $$ dance in the arcade… she will blaze the music in her r0om & started dancing for hrs… Every pay-day, we w0uld g0 t0wn or Bugis & start 2 sh0p… b0th of us will get very excited… b0ught the same cl0thes & w0re the same cl0thes 2 t0wn… as our taste in cl0thes r quite similar…see u har, b0th of us hate studying, rather went 2 w0rk & earn $$… hate parents 2 control our freedom… whenever we had the same ideas or thinking… she will definitely said “ same surname will have same thinking” wat she said was true en0ugh… even th0ugh, things tat we didn’t say it out, yet we r l0oking at each other, we n0e wat in our mind!!! She will asked” r u thinking wat I’m thinking???” can say great minds think alike…
We changed our j0b to KFC… hey it at orchard again… (Shaw Tower) it really fun w0rking with her l0rz… full of crapz, n0nesenses, lameness and rubbish everywhere… h0wever gd times didn’t last… after this j0b, we had our separate w0rking life…
Our friendship started strain when she had this ah_beng bf… useless guy I can say… ex-convict, taking drugs, teaching her how 2 steal, b0ught pills 4 her 2 eat as a birthday present, dun let her g0 out (esp m0i… say I always bring her out 2 waste $$) wat rubbish??? & etc la… see h0w him treat her I always get fed up..
But wat the point when yr frenz dun listen 2 u, insisted on listen to bf… haix... ended up we always quarreled c0s “him”…
There was once we had a big quarreled… and told myself never g0 l0ok 4 this frenz again… True, we didn’t meet 4 alm0st half year… even th0ugh staying s0 near, quite dunn0 wat she d0ing…d0ing well? Did her bf treat her gd??? Aiyah, s0 s0rt of stupid questions kept p0ping up… well, at least we r buddies again…
Till n0w they had been 2gether 4 alm0st 3 years… things getting w0rst… I had my bf, there she has her “brainless” bf… 0f c0s, there r times where b0th of bf have different comments or opinion wib us… but m0st of my time, I’ll find my best 2 argue wib my bf tat she is n0t this type of ppl, n0t this, n0t tat… helping her in saying gd things… dun wanna my bf 2 leave d0wn bad impression 4 her ma…
But on the other way, she agreed whatever her bf say abt m0i!!! here r s0me examples.. if u guys read already thinking wa, why am I s0 xiao qi, ppl jus j0king or have other comments, d0 n0t hesitate to write in my tag b0ard… alrite???
Let m0i take recently cases wat they sms or told m0i… having such stupid ideas of g0ing chiong during Chinese new year fri… wanna relax frm w0rk stress & take a l0ok la… she was damm excited!!! Freaking excited… tat her dream g0ing 2 chiong wib her frenz… (c0s her bf dun ever let her g0 chiong herself!!!) this is the reason why I jio her g0 to0… k, nvm… I was like hinting her, he all0wed u 2 g0 wib m0i meh? Later he called & scolded m0i h0w?? She replied m0i heck care lahz… tat my dream g0ing Chiong lei… I was ok l0rz… tat nite, her bf called & requested $20 buck… guess why??? Haahaa… u guys see lia0 will penGz.. th0ught this is a joke … it n0t… he said c0s I wanna bring her gf out 2 chi0ng, s0 have 2 give him $20 2 bribe him first!!! I was like, har?? Wat the F*** g0t such rulez one meh??? I was thinking why $20… OMG, he wanna take this $20 g0 buy 2 FISHES… it tat very funni??? Haahaa… can’t accept rite? My bf & I can’t take it to0… a 30 years old guy get $20 frm a 19 years old 2 buy fishes & exchange her gf’s freedom… Crapz sia… alm0st every nite called & pestered m0i abt the $20…
Als0 dunn0 why so heng her bf & m0i resigned on the same day… s0 they r in financial problem w/o her bf w0rking… called m0i twice 2 b0rrow $200… oh, didn’t they n0e I’m jobless to0… can’t they jus b abit m0re considerate??? M0i als0 need s0me $$ 2 eat & transport ma… fear of seeing her name on my phone… another time jus requested $100 2 make passport! I said really dun have n0t purposely dun lend.. it seem like dun understand my w0rd har~ n0 $100, $50 can? OMG, dunn0 how many I’m g0ing 2 repeat myself… I dun have $$ rite n0w!!! called m0i the next day, wanna lend formal shirt 4 interview frm my bf… hey my bf’s size compare to her bf is damm big different l0rz.. said no $$ 2 buy tat why… (indirect saying m0i dun lend them $$ lorz)
Okay, why we end our relationship c0s of this slimming gel… which ZA new product… (ZA salesgal) she kept promoting this slimming gel 4 m0i…I told her n0 $$ lia0 h0w 2 buy frm her, yet she said nvm… she helped m0i buy 1st, later return m0ney 2 her… ok lorz.. (if I’m n0t wrong she did earn s0me commission de) help her buy as a frenz lo.. then she started asking m0i 2 buy 2 instead of 1.. I said if really can slim m0i d0wn, g0 buy frm her again la, try 1st l0rz.. so I insisted wan 1 onli… she commented, aiyahz 1 is n0t en0ugh 4 u lahz.. ( mean wat??? I'm fat!) I n0e it!
During my w0rking hr, she called & asked whether i start w0rking? m0i: ya, why? she:har? paya lebar? s0 far? pay gd or not? m0i:trying 2 avoid her Q! she: issit no one hire u s0 u w0rk at paya lebar??? arughz..dun wanna 2 l0se face, s0 kept quiet... she:s0 meet u 2nite 2 pass yr slimming gel h0rz... end conversation...
In the aftern0o, she called again! she: hey my bf get the job, selling perfume...pay n0t bad
$2000 higher than U...he needs a tie 4 his job, s0 i need $$ 2 buy...m0i: i dun have $$ lei...she:oh n0, u jus need 2 return tat slimming gel's $$ then it en0ugh 2 buy a tie...i was like har? a tie c0st onli $16.9 meh??? wa lau...she: can i g0 yr w0rkplace & pass the slimming gel 2 u? m0i:har? i'm w0rking lei...wait 2nite lahz...getting m0re & m0re fed up!!!
by the time 10pm...i was still outside...saw my hp had 6 misses calls.... decided 2 meet her 2m0lo nite..very late by the time i reached wdls...w0w, interesting part cum lia0...she:har? dun find excuses dun pay h0rz... m0i:wat? pls lah,$16.90 i can't afford meh??? she:hey, my bf asked u wanna w0rk retail b0? selling perfumes...can earn m0re than yr current j0b... m0i:erm, dun like 2 w0rk retail hr...nvm... she:oh, my bf said afraid yr turn 2 call us & b0rr0w $$ sia... haahaa.... m0i: OMG, my blo0d b0iled up!!! wat? even i left 5 cents, i will never ever b0rrow any $$ frm u all....
(btw, wat she replied i assumed is her bf said de... i sh0uldn't put any blame on apple... but as a frenz or i can say a n0rmal human being wib brain n0rmal EQ/IQ will n0t say such thing out...it damm hurt cum saractise...)
told my bf abt it...tu laned!!! aiyahz...jus dun wish 2 tok abt it lia0...the m0re i t0k abt her, the m0re i get fed up...jus ended our 5 years frenzship like tat...lastly, still felt very s0rri 4 her why she has such BF...
p/s: n0t every frenzships are forever... REMEMBER FRIENDSHIP DO END!!!!~ Cherish frenz tat r w0rth it... =)
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